Thursday, August 28, 2008

Does having oral sex after vaginal sex bad for the women?

I ask this because, my girlfriend and I frequently have sex, but we keep things simple like just vaginal sex, or just oral sex and that's it, or even oral sex, then vaginal sex, but not until recently she wanted to try oral sex after vaginal sex. I've seen pornographic movies of such, so I guess it's okay. I'm just worried about my girlfriend who was willing to do things to please me and turn me on, but more than anything I don't want to put any dangerous risk to her. That's why I told her I will never do anal with her, even though it's like every man's dream or at least for some. She was even willing to try it, but I said no. As for this, we've done it a couple times, because of the heat of the moment but now I want to make sure before continuing with it. Thanks.
You sound like a great guy and that you really care about your girlfriend. The only risk is if you two have any STDs. Then you risk catching it orally. But if both are clean then there is no risk. As for Anal sex, use lots of lube so you dont hurt her, and NEVER let her perform oral on you after you have been in the back door. She can get sick from the bactiria transfer. Also you shouldnt go from the front door to the back door and back to the front door. That can give her a UTI. Doesnt always happen but it can. If you do decide to try anal sex start slow dont force yourself inside her, you can hurt her. Slow at first untill you get full penitration and LOTS of lube, after that its alot like regular sex, But NEVER EVER oral after that. Have fun and enjoy each other.
I think it is risky that your girlfriend might have some bacterial infectious disease. There might be bacteria present in the vagina and the penis that might be swallowed by your girlfriend when you shift from vaginal intercourse to oral sex. There's a lot of sexual fun but be careful.
If both of you are sure you don't have a STD, there's nothing wrong with going from vaginal to oral, and some women even are turned on by their taste.

I commend you for not doing anal...I really don't know why someone would want to...maybe I'll post a question about that...
Provided that neither of you have any STDs then you are fine to do oral, anal or vaginal in any order you like. Your hands are probably filled with more germs than her vagina and you wouldn't think twice about putting your fingers in her mouth, would you?
Man, you got yourself a winner. As for the oral, STD's don't spawn out of thin air. If you guys are in a monogamous relationship, you in good shape. I hope you are monogamous, don't let a chick like that go to waste.
Yes, it does bad. One of my friends got oral herpes from having oral sex after vaginal sex. You may ask her at her blog on pozcupid .com
I wouldn't imagine there would be anything wrong with it.
Npthing wrong with going from vaginal to oral. Some women really like their own "taste."

Have fun!
Its harmless.


And i admire you for not wanting to do anal!
yea its fine.
yes it is.
i really dont see how this could hurt her...
nahh
I've been sexually active for 35 years it's never harmed me in any way. Many women hate kissing men after the men gave them oral sex wouldn't think of oral sex after vaginal sex. Other women desire it. As for me, it's not my favourite I don't really like it, but from time to time,it's fun to get messy! There's no harm in it, if you are both healthy.

By the way, I go for checkups with my gynaecologist every 3 years to make sure I'm in good health below. Also, it's good to steer away from anal penetration - it hurts can cause IBS (irritable bowel sydrome) Done it, been there don't recommend it.

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